--Now hearing this threw me for a loop.
About a year and a half ago, I was working as a painter at my old high school, on the Summer Arts Festival. Harrison was a working as a carpenter. The set took a little over a month and a half to build. The remainder of the summer the show was performed. I worked backstage during the show. Harrison would bring his Gf, Destiny, to the shows and we'd all hang out with the other stage hands. over those couple of weeks we got to know one another pretty well. I had developed quite a crush on her. (just for details-she is about 5 ft., has tinted skin and dark hair--adorable!!) The last night of the performance, most people had left. Only a few actors and stage hands remained to clean up. I had finished moving all the furniture we had commandeered to use back stage. I had 'forgotten' my bag on stage and asked Destiny to come with me to get it. It was so dark on stage, there were only blue lights overhead from the end of the play. I turned her around (I had already had my bag ;P) and said she should forget about Harrison and be with me.(FYI- this is the most douche-bag thing I have ever done, I still feel kind of bad about it) I guess she was really surprised because she was tripping her words. She said that she was sure I had a Bf and wasn't interested in females at all. I explained how wrong she was. She smiled and said yes. Hug-cuddles happened. She still had to go home with Harrison tonight. I wasn't planning on her telling him so soon. We came to the set the next morning for break-down now that the show was over. It was just the stage hands that were there. Harrison came in yelling and screaming. No one knew wth he was going on about. I'm glad he didn't say. I had never planned on coming out to anyone I worked with. Harrison knew because he was in the GSA with me when I went to that school. We had a long talk, and I'm pretty sure he was going to slap me; I would've let him. I felt I deserved it. ---huh, now that I think about it, I guess I'd let Kayla slap me too, just once. God, what is wrong with me--- Anyway, in the end neither of us got to be with her(Harrison and I made made up- I never have enemies for too long). Destiny was supposedly staying in West Hartford (where I live) with her mother. But ended up moving back with her father in Texas. She wanted to stay here, more of her friends were here, she didn't have any siblings either. It must have been lonely. We would send emails and myspace messages for a little while. But that ended quite some time ago.
Anyway, now I was sure Harrison would hate our whole family. (granted, Kyle wouldn't know why, I haven't told him yet) I met with Harrison in the center (where high-schoolers hang out at night) and resolved everything that needed to be taken care of. He no longer has ill-feelings toward my brother, and they still hang. (yay! :) ) I do need to meet with him again to find out more on Toby. She's really doing a number on my brother. Apparently she cuts herself quite often, and has attempted suicide twice. While I don't like seeing my brother suffer over his first love, I like that he comes to me for advice. We have never talked like this before, which leads me to believe he really cares for her. I really like getting along with my brother. For a long time it was really rocky, still is, but it's better. I'm helping the best I can, but I find that I'm almost in the same predicament as he. however, I can not tell him. All I can do for him is be there when he wants to talk. I'm glad he's using that. I usually know what's going on with him from his friends anyway, but it's much better to hear it from him.
omg! I can write stuff! Lol, i want some hot chocolate. :)
Alright, so my brother Kyle has been going through a tough time with his new girlfriend. (kyle is 16) I have always known all his friends and everyone he's ever been in contact with. Either I was friends with them before hand or they liked me more than him to begin with. His recent Gf, Toby, 15, I have never met. Strange, because she is the cousin of our mutual friend, and his best friend, Joe. (they also live next door to each other, which happens to be down the street from our fathers house) Toby's parents DO NOT like Kyle in the least. Shit went down in the past with Kyle and Joe(that I'm not supposed to know about, but again, his friends tell me everything) So, their whole family doesn't like him. Toby's parents ended up kicking her out of the house for seeing him. She did not go to her other family's house next door so she went to our father's with Kyle. Kyle called me to see if I was home at my mothers (at the time I didn't know what was going on) I said 'no, I'm at the ren-faire'. He seemed to be in a hurry, his breathing was labored. He then hung up with no explanation. I later found out when I returned from the week at Kayla's, he wanted me home to watch over Toby. Her parents eventually came looking for her and brought her home. When I returned home I was informed by my brother that Toby had just broken up with Harrison.